Everyone remembers their first time…

…don’t they?


A tricycle doesn’t count as a first bike, does it? Me, aged about three, with my sister

I was reading a post on another blog about the writer’s memories of her first bike and of learning to ride it. It got me thinking about when I first learned to ride a bike.

And I realised I have absolutely no recollection of it whatsoever.

I mean, it must have happened. I can ride a bike now, and clearly I wasn’t born with this ability. Somewhere in the gap between not knowing and knowing, between non-cyclist and cyclist, there must have been stabilisers, falls, grazed knees, tears and cries of ‘Daddy, don’t let go of me!’ or words to that effect.

I know there must have been, yet I can’t remember any of it.

In fact, when I think about riding a bike as a kid, the only memories I can summon are from when I was about nine years old – long after I would have learned to ride one.

Just off the street I grew up on there’s a footpath known as the gennel (or ‘alleyway’, for those not from Sheffield). It starts just down the street, passes round the back of my parents’ house and comes out around the corner. Other people might see it simply as a shortcut to get from A to B. Back then, for my sister and I, and the other kids on our street, it was a racecourse.

Two of us would race at a time, each heading off in opposite directions on our bikes. The winner was, obviously, the one who got back to the start first. But, in reality, we often knew who had won well before that – it all depended on where you were when you passed the other racer. Before a certain point, you knew they’d won. After a certain point and you’d won. At a certain point and you knew you’d have a race to the finish line.

There was one girl we used to play with, Melissa, who was a poor loser – which was a bit of a problem seeing as she usually lost. Instead of accepting defeat, she would pretend to have fallen off her bike. When a few minutes had passed after whoever she’d been racing had got back, we’d have to go off in search of her, and would invariably find her on the floor, crying, with her bike next to her.

(As kids, I don’t recall we had much sympathy for her. Although, looking back, I wonder if we were a little cruel. But then again, no-one can fall off that often – can they?)

Being a loser – poor or otherwise – wasn’t so much of a problem for me because I don’t think I lost very often, thanks to my rather fabulous bike. My dad had built it for me, using the frame of an old second-hand bike which he fixed up. I don’t remember exactly what it looked like, only that it was spray-painted metallic blue. I think it was pretty plain – no frills or tassels or baskets. But what it lacked in accoutrements, it made up for in speed.

Melissa had a big brother called Daniel, who was older than the rest of us and didn’t usually join in our games. He may even have started secondary school at this point, and probably considered himself far too grown up for such child’s play. I don’t know. But I do remember that he was very interested in my bike. He even had a nickname for it – the ‘mean machine’. I think he used to ask to borrow it, and he may have joined in some of our races on it. I remember feeling quite proud that this older boy was interested in my bike – and, by association, me.

I don’t know what happened to the ‘mean machine’, except that I grew out of it, in the same way that I grew out of bike races and playing out. I don’t think I owned a bike at all while I was a teenager. In fact, I don’t think I had another bike until I was living in Mississippi…but that’s a whole other story.

10 thoughts on “Everyone remembers their first time…

  1. I remember my first bike ride very well (even though it was 48 years ago): I was about five years old and on the VERY FIRST RIDE I got chased by a dog and fell of the bike and since the handlebars did not have grips when my chin hit it and I ended up with a lot of stitches — and I still have the scar!

    • Wow! That sounds like a first bike ride you’d never forget. I’m amazed you managed to get back on a bike again after that. I think, if that had been me, I’d’ve been far too scared – particularly about being chased by a dog. I was terrified of dogs when I was a kid.

  2. I remember as if it were yesterday that moment when my mum let go of the seat of my red bike and suddenly I was cycling all by myself! It was exhilarating. Thanks for reminding me of such a happy memory! 🙂

  3. Nope; no stabilisers. Didn’t believe in them! And in fact I can’t remember you learning to ride a bike, either – you just seemed to be able to do it. So I think you were indeed born knowing how…..

    • Cheers dad! Now I feel a bit better about not being able to remember it…everyone else I mention it to seems to have a story about their first bike or learning to ride, and I was starting to feel a bit left out

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